I went to an autism support group and I have to admit I felt a bit like I was lying. After all I don't have a child diagnosed with ASD. Not that I claimed I did, but just showing up I felt like I was somehow being deceitful. However, I figured these are the parents that I can relate to when it comes to dealing with Howler's difficulties. There's not a support group that I know of for children with "generic developmental delays".
While in some respects I felt out of place it was nice to hear parents having the same issues with their kids and hearing that they don't exactly handle it with the best grace either. It's easy to feel judged when you are among families without a delayed child, but here I felt like I was among comrades. Everyone shared openly, honestly about their troubles. There were some things I was shocked to hear, but it was nice for people to know they could lay it all out for this group because they knew the others there would understand.
We brain stormed on how to deal with some behaviors that I deal with often and those who had older children shared what worked for them. I have to admit it was a bit depressing listening to the heartache of parents with adult dependent children, but I did leave with some good advice and a new friend that I've continued to talk to over Facebook these last few month. It's been wonderful to swap stories with someone and know that you aren't the only one dealing with issues developmental delays bring.
They meet once a month. Unfortunately, I've not had the chance to get back. Unavoidable work, weather, and sickness always seem to land on that date each month. I have a book from their ASD library I need to get back eventually! Anyway, if you're looking for a support group in your area. I highly recommend Autism Oklahoma. They have subgroups all over the state.
I think I might even make my first race this year their PieceWalk charity event.
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